"The 80% Trap: Why I Always Seem to Fall Short"



Entry #29

Have you ever felt like you're almost there, but somehow you just can't seem to cross the finish line? I know I have. It's as if I've done 75% or 80% of the work, but then I just... stop. I get frustrated, bored, feel defeated, or make excuses. Sound familiar?

The Journey vs. The Destination

I've lost count of how many times I've heard that "achieving your goal is a journey, not a destination." It's become a mantra for me, but to be honest, it's not always comforting. Sometimes it feels like I'm just spinning my wheels, getting nowhere fast.

The SMART Plan: My New Best Friend

Lately, I've been hearing a lot about the SMART plan. You know, the one that stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-Bound? Yeah, that one. It's been crammed down my throat recently, but I have to admit, it's actually helping.

Goals Without Plans Are Just Dreams

Another phrase that's been thrown around a lot lately is "goals without plans are just dreams." You know what? It's true. I've been guilty of setting goals without a clear plan, and it's gotten me nowhere. But I'm working on it.

Reflection and Adjustment

Lately, I've been reflecting on my progress (or lack thereof), and I've come to realize that I need to make some adjustments. Maybe I was just looking for excuses to quit, or maybe I was afraid of failure. Whatever it was, I'm working on it.

The Power of Journaling

Writing in this journal has been a game-changer for me. It's helped me clear my mind, process my thoughts, and gain clarity on what I want to achieve. It's not perfect, but it's a start.

One Win at a Time

Maybe I should just count every journal entry as one win. Each win can compound with other wins, and before I know it, I'll be a winner... or at least, my dog will think I am.

The Bottom Line

Frustration is part of life, but giving up isn't an option. Not for me, anyway. I'm committed to seeing this journey through, even when it gets tough. And if you're feeling stuck like I was, I hope you'll join me on this journey. Who knows, maybe we'll even have some fun along the way.

You deserve the best!

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